The life of Margit Takacs a.k.a Gitti... Random thoughts and structured monthly stories from South East Asia. Enjoy :-)

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Travelling differently

A few weeks ago I was flying on Singapore Airlines and came across this article by Paulo Coelho. His words truly inspired and touched me so I thought to share them here, too, as finally I found the write-up online!

TRAVELLING DIFFERENTLY
By Paulo Coelho

I realized very early on that, for me, travelling was the best way of learning. I still have a pilgrim soul, and I thought that I would pass on some of the lessons I have learned, in the hope that they might prove useful to other pilgrims like me.

1. AVOID MUSEUMS. This might seem to be absurd advice, but let’s just think about it a little. IF you are in a foreign city, isn’t it far more interesting to go in search of the present than the past? It’s just that people feel obliged to go to museums because they learned as children that travelling was about seeking out that kind of culture. Obviously, museums are important, but they require time and objectivity- you need to know what you want to see there, otherwise you will leave with a sense of having seen a few really fundamental things, but can’t remember what they were.

2. HANG OUT IN BARS. Bars are the places where life in the city reveals itself, not in museums. By bars I don’t mean discotheques, but the places where ordinary people go, have a drink, ponder the weather, and are always ready for a chat. Buy a newspaper and enjoy the ebb and flow of people. IF someone strikes up a conversation, however silly, join in: you cannot judg the beauty of a particular path just by looking at the gate.

3. BE OPEN. The best tour guide is someone who lives in the place, knows everything about it, is proud of his or her city, but does not work in an agency. Go out into the street, choose the person you want to talk to, and ask them something (Where is the cathedral? Where is the post office?). IF nothing comes of it, try someone else- I guarantee that by the end of the day you will have found yourself an excellent companion.

4. TRY TO TRAVEL ALONE OR- IF YOU ARE MARRIED- WITH YOUR SPOUSE. It will be a harder work, no one will be there taking care of you, but only in this way can you truly leave your own country behind. Travelling with a group is a way of being in a foreign country but speaking your mother tongue, doing whatever the leader of the flock tells you to do, and taking more interest in group gossip than in the place you are visiting.

5. DON’T COMPARE. Don’t compare anything- prices, standards of hygiene, quality of life, means of transportation, nothing! You are not travelling in order to prove that you have a better life than other people. Your aim is to find out how other people live, what they can teach you, how they deal with reality and with the extraordinary.

6. UNDERSTAND THAT EVERYONE UNDERSTANDS YOU. Even if you don’t speak the language, don’t be afraid. I’ve been in lots of places where I cound not communicate with words at all, and I always found support, guidance, useful advice, and even girlfriends. Some people think that if they travel alone, they will set off down the street and be lost for ever. Just make sure you have the hotel card in your pocket and- if the worst comes to the worst- flag down a taxi and show the card to the driver.

7. DON’T BUY TOO MUCH. Spend your money on things you won’t need to carry: tickets to a good play, restaurants, trips. Nowadays, with the global economy and the internet, you can buy anything you want without having to pay excess baggage.

8. DON’T TRY TO SEE THE WORLD IN A MONTH. It is far better to stay in a city for four or five days than visit five cities in a week. A city is like a capricious woman: she takes time to be seduced and to reveal herself completely.

9. A JOURNEY IS AN ADVENTURE: Henry Miller used to say that it is far more important to discover a church that no one else has ever heard of than go to Rome and feel obliged to visit the Sistine Chapel with two hundred thousand other tourists bellowing in your ear. By all means go to the Sistine Chapel, but wander the streets too, explore alleyways, experience the freedom of looking for something- quite what you don’t know, but which, if you find it, will, you can be sure, change your life.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Argentine adventures

My friends, Nicoline (NL) and Pedro (PT) have decided to make their love official and get married in Buenos Aires where Nicky’s parents currently live and where she spent the first 5 years of her life. After their very romantic engagement story and the news about the upcoming wedding, you can imagine - my fantasy started playing with me: is Latin America my next adventure :-)?



001 Trip to Argentina


It took me a while to organize the trip to cross over the approx 20,000km but I was right there, at the airport, in the early-early morning of 8th March, starting my journey: after 10.5 hours of flying I had 7 hours transiting in Johannesburg, then another 10 hours and I landed in Sao Paulo, Brazil. My friend, Zoe (AU) lives there now but unfortunately she was in the countryside on that weekend, so our alumni friend, Pablo (AT/AR) welcomed me there! The recommended taxi driver was late (Judit, my HU friend told me that the time has a whole different concept over here than in Singapore ;-)), so I looked around for alternatives but all other drivers easily asked for 50% more for the same trip to Pinheiros. Finally I managed to talk to Valdecir, the driver by asking random local people to talk to him on my mobile in Portuguese! It was around 8pm already when in absolute excitement I was sitting in the taxi, looking forward to seeing my first ever Latin American city, even if just for a night! Valdecir and I managed to somehow talk with a mix of languages, he spoke Portuguese and I spoke my tiny Spanish, English even Italian (I never knew I spoke it ;-) hehehehe) ;-). During the one hour, we “talked” about the financial capital of Brazil, Sao Paulo, the samba capital, Rio de Janeiro, the people, we sang Brazilian and Hungarian songs and we were guessing what the other one wanted to say. I loved it!



003 A night in Sao Paulo with Iris Ludek and Pablo


Pablo was waiting for me at his place. His family name did not strike out at first but after meeting I realized he was the Pablo I knew from conferences in 2001. What a small world! Ludek (CZ) was also there, I had not seen him for like 6-7 years already! A friend of Pablo, Iris (BR) also joined, we chatted, drank yummy red wine, Pablo even attempted to teach me a bit of “forro”, the local folk dance :-)!

We talked till around 1am and somehow the time difference was all fine, I was not tired so we walked to Iris’, while roaming through some nice streets of Pinheiros on this Saturday night, just about 15 minutes. There was so much life everywhere: loud bars, hugging & kissing couples… I always missed this from NZ and SG, this way of expressing affection for the other one, even though this was a level higher than in Hungary…

The next morning Valdecir picked me up from Iris’ place and took me to the airport. There I tried the famous Brazilian cheese bread, the “pao de quiejo”… yummmm :-)!

In the afternoon I was already at the airport of Buenos Aires and attempting to figure out all those Spanish signs around me. Soon I managed to find a rented car (“remise”) and headed towards Hotel Atlas Tower on Avenida Corrientes, the place that we booked with many firends. This driver was also sweetly talkative and excitedly talked about his own city. At least I think, based on my understanding.

From books and documentumary movies I already knew 9 Julio Avenida and the Obelisc, but finally it was right in front of me. Yeah!



005 Walking with Mitch in Feria de San Telmo


At the hotel, my friend, Micheline was waiting for me already and after unpacking we took off for a 45-min-walk to San Telmo, a famous district nearby. The Feria de San Telmo was full of artists, painters, dancers, musicians playing tango, colony-time buildings, silver gadgets and the place was marvellous! For a while we were just standing in front of the church there, wondering at a fabulous group of young tango lover musicians. What a fantastic opening this was to my Argentine adventures :-)!



007 Young people singing passionate tango music in San Telmo


As the time was passing by, slowly Shweta, Aditi, Pedro, Anja, Zoe, Lukas, Andreia, Goncalo also arrived and all together we walked to a famous restaurant nearby, called Chiquilin. With the girls we share two beef meals and hardly could finish them! “Bienvenidos en Argentina/ Welcome to Argentina!”.



014 Shopping the time away and trying dresses


We started our Monday with dress-hunting on Avenida Santa Fe. Shweta and Aditi soon found something amazing so the mission was almost complete... The streets truly reminded me to Europe, the people, their cloths, the buildings, the colours, the lights, the atmosphere... I loved it!
The attraction, the Teatro Colon was closed because of renovation but we soon found heaps else to see and do!



016 Cemerario de Recoleta


The “Cemetario de la Recoleta” was surprisingly nice... Its buildings were respecting, in peace and beauty, the memories of the ancestors and was a special place for both relatives and visitors. It was like a labyrinth, you could easily get lost in its alleys! After quite some roaming, we even found the tomb of Evita Peron, at the Familia Duarte memorial place.

The Recoleta Church was one of the most beautiful ones we had seen in this country, the park of this district was full of young people (and so many handsome men!), picnicing on the fresh green lawn, surrounded with plenty of cafes! The four of us did not need any much more, we just let the place enchant us. Our chats and silliness reminded me to scenes of Sex in the City and Friends, filled with womenly naive and random chats. Loved it!



023 If only we knew what an orgasmic tango show awaited us WOHOAAA


In the evening, we organised a visit to Senor Tango Bar. What a sensational evening it was! The place was like the bar of Moulin Rouge, bordeaux and filled with dark wood, there was a round shape teatrium, a rolling stage, energetic band, cabaret like master of ceremony, six pairs of fabulous tango dancers with amazing level of enthusiasm and passion, two singing twins and never-ending red and white wine! What a day!!!



029 The interior takes you away with many decades in Cafe Tortoni


The next morning, after having heard so much about the place, we targeted Cafe Tortoni, a 150-year-old cafe downtown. Shweta, Aditi, Micheline and I were just sipping on our “cafe con leche” and let the enchantment continue. The streets around were here and there coloured with tiny whatevers of local flee market guys. Our walk took us to the somewhat strange (kinda cold) Catedral Metropolitan and then through another park full of picnicing people, we reached Casa Rosada. This pink government building vividly lived in my memories ever since I saw the shocking movie of Imaginng Argentina about the “dirty war” 30 years ago.



035 Muy gaupos...Pablo, Carlos, Juan & Jose......one for each chica


The Argentine men are, without a doubt, hot-hot-hot so we could not resist but take a photo with four of them :-): we named them Pablo, Carlos, Juan and Jose… hehehhee. We had a sneak preview into Cabildo and then headed towards La Boca (which is also the home for the soccer team). On the way there, we talked to the taxi driver who was simply hilarious and even named us in Spanish: Shweta became Rosa, Micheline Beatrice, Aditi Lorena and me Sylvia. We named him Liam as that name sounded the most English. Hehehehe…



040 La Boca is just colourful vibrant and amazing LOVING IT




Apparently the district of La Boca is very dangerous but four of its beautiful streets are guarded with security to ensure joy of visiting. The bright colours on the walls of the buildings are just stunning, and the way artists and their masterpieces colour the walkway was just fantastic!

We got lunch in a restaurant signposted with the local cowboy, a gaucho, and then while walking around Caminito, the walking spree full of tango dancers, we struggled to realise the real reality: we are really in Argentina :-)! Yahooo!



052 The renovated dockland of Puerto Madera with cafes and ice creaaaaam


That night around 20 of us from the wedding crowd and the soon-to-be-weds met up in the nearby Cuba bar where we talked, ate and drank heaps of moquitos.

Wednesday started with trying on the dresses and then the mission was completed, Shweta, Aditi and I headed to San Telmo for lunch. There was a very sweet atmosphere awaiting us there, despite the fact that during the weekdays there was no “feria” market, neither the weekend buzz I experienced a few days before. Instead tango dancers were entertaining the visitors of this terraced plaza and loud Argentine music filled up the air all around.

From here we went to Puero Madeiro. This is a recently renovated harbour surrounded by plenty of expensive hotels, cute cafes and restaurants. Later we headed to Palermo Soho & Hollywood, walked a bit there and then we were waiting for Nicoline, the bride at the hotel.



053 Bachelorette night


To our greatest surprise the bachelorette party was to be held in Palermo, too. The dark red walled Congo Bar was a very cool place for this celebration! We did some silly challenges for Nicky, drank delicious caipiroshka cocktails and just had a great fun together, around 15 of us! Later we found out that the bachelor party was nearby too, so we ended up spending a bit of time, dancing together.



059 Chicks chicks and chicks


On Thursday the couple’s parents hosted the international guests for an “asado”, barbeque in their beautiful house in the suburb. On this stunning, cloudless late summer day, around 50 of us were enjoying the fantastic Argentine “lomo” beef slices and other delicacies and just enjoyed the relaxed atmosphere and company.

Nicky’s parents, Giselle and Peter talked heaps to Katalin (wife of one of the Portuguese guys) and me about their two-year-long assignment and all the adventures in Hungary, between 1990-1992. What a small world :-)! Here I had the chance to talk a wee bit with Pedro’s mum, too.

The long bachelorette night and then the sunny barbeque took all our energy so that night we “only” had some oomph to check out another tango show. The legendary Café Tortoni was highly recommended by Lonely Planet and some of our friends so around a dozen of us went to check out the program there. The traditional performance, maybe because I saw it after the Senor Tango show and I was exhausted, was just okay to me. But to my greatest surprise here I met up with Naaz, our Indian friend (best friend of Krishna), who lives in Chile now!!! Wohoaaa!



065 What a small world - Yat is backpacking here all the way from Ecuador



Then the big day arrived: it was time for Nicky’s and Pedro’s wedding (apparently they did the official ceremony already on Wednesday). In the morning, at the hotel, I got a call from Yat Wan, our New Zealander friend who just recently finished her internship in Ecuador and now roamed around the continent with her backpack and we arranged to meet up for a tea & coffee. Aditi and Nacho who just then arrived to the capital we spent some chilled time in one of the nearby cafes.



066 The gentlemen getting ready for the ceremony


Later, rush to the hairdresser, get ready and time to go to the elegant wedding reception!



067 The girls getting ready for the ceremony


It must have taken around an hour to reach Palacio Sans Souci, a beautiful mansion in the suburbs. The place was stunning, it somehow reminded me to the palace in the cartoon Beauty and the Beast! At the big green backyard of the place the wedding crowd was slowly assembling. There was a big white altar-kind table on the grass and a rosehip path leading to the precious spot. Refreshing drinks, champaign, snacks… and suddenly the famous wedding song could be heard. From my friends’ circle, there were the four of us, girls, then Nacho (AR), Pedro, Anja, Goncalo, Andreia (PT), Ludek (CZ), and some alumni friends and childhood buddies of the couple were also present: Norberto, Ciro, Sophie, Ivo, Carlos, Betty (PT), Szymon & Asia (PL), Matthew (US), Carolina, Hannalieke, etc.



075 Happiness


After the glooming & shining couple signed some papers in the Palacio, all of us cheered for them with champagne and let many white Nicoline & Pedro balloons up to the air! All the elegant guests dressed in rainbow-like colours then suddenly took over the green garden of the mansion and it was photo time. Wohoaaa!

We were then asked to go inside the house and an opera singer, specially invited for this event, started singing. After the appetizer Giselle and Peter shared their stories and wished the very best to the couple, and then speeches by the maid of honour and bestman followed. As the time was passing by, the song “Don’t cry for me, Argentina” was heard, Nicky and her Dad opened the dance floor. We could ask for songs in advance and a professional DJ was mixing the music, following the vibe of the crowd. Young and old danced the night away together!



082 A party snapshot


Nicky’s brothers, Alex and Moritz and their partners, Karyn and Lysette were also taking their part in the welcoming and entertainment, and at around midnight ‘magicians of the dance floors”, tango dancers also appeared. Our favourite local dancers were Nacho & Alejandro who kept up with us with both energy and rhythm :-)!

Hours after starting the dances, the energy level went down a bit and then suddenly the organizers appeared with funky colourful hats to buzz up the mood. And it absolutely worked! “Half-way through” big dessert tables were welcoming people outside in the garden and the flow of delicious cocktails also continued…



084 Funny hats to cheer people up


The newly weds continued to shine, they looked so happy and thrilled, the wedding crowd was really just an “extra” to the special moments. We danced till around 3am and then talked a bit and just enjoyed our time together…

The next day, early in the morning, I kicked myself out of bed and started my way to Colonia in Uruguay, one of the UNESCO world heritage places. The others slept in but I kept up with my plan and with tiny little eyes, seeing only a wee bit of the world at those early hours I was ready for a new adventure, starting with a 3-hour-long ferry ride (if available, I would rather suggest the one hour speed boat though).



086 The famous Faro lighthouse of the Portugueuse and Spanish mixed colony


This country of around 3.2 million seemingly looked identical to Argentina. The streets were named after countries and cities in the region, the river was suspiciously redish-brown (which was not polluted but steered up with the red soil). There was an English tour guide taking care of only three of us, it really seemed, most visitors were from Argentina, just wanting to chill out, far away from the loudness of Buenos Aires. I had lunch in the restaurant called “Viejo Tunel” and after a one-hour briefing about the history of the place I started roaming around the enchanting streets of Portuguese and Spanish heritage, here and there decorated by very old automobiles… It was a peaceful and wonderful ambience!



087 Charming little cobblestone streets


On the way back the ferry was late again, this time with 2.5 hours so I reached Buenos Aires only at midnight. Taxi drivers thought I did not speak Spanish and started talking about how inconsiderate that was from the tourists but then I slowly convinced them to take me “home”, I understood them pretty well. Aditi, Yat and Mitch were a bit worried about my delay but finally I was back, after a fabulous Uruguay day :-)! Even if absolutely exhaustedly.

Sunday morning we headed to the airport to get on with our travels and go to Puerto Iguazu, around a 1,000 km away, with Aerolineas Argentina, the local airline that is apparently always on strike. Edgardo, the host in Las Tinajas backpackers explained us the whereabouts of this small town, and after a short rest, we went to roam around in this little town of around 32,000. We visited the golden triangle of Argentina-Paraguay-Brazil, ate phenomenal meat and slept big time at night.



093 At the golden triangle of Brazil Argentina and Paraguay


On Monday morning we took the local bus for around 15 minutes to reach the world famous Parque de Cataratas Iguazu. We first took the lower trail which path led us to the bottom of the waterfalls where one can get inside the falls with a boat, just like having a shower. It was breath-taking to wonder at this natural beauty from the water’s surface and admire what a massive energy is present all around! Between two parts of the waterfalls there was the Isla San Martin island where we stopped to dry up after the “waterfall shower” and trek a bit in the forest. The upper trail then led us to the “devil’s viewpoint” where we saw tucuman birds, snakes, alligator, and was enjoying the amazing wonder of the world for around 7 hours!



098 What a nature


Filled with fantastic explorations, we then headed back to the town of Puerto Iguazu where we found the chef of the best ever Argentine empanadas in the Lo De Rolo restaurant. Needless to say, later we died out of exhaustion :-).



100 Breathtaking waterfalls rainbow and the two friends US


Next morning we were again on the road, taking a bus to the small village of 10,000, San Ignacio. We stopped at its tiny church which was also the centre of the village and then found Hotel San Ignacio, a place that Lonely Planet highly recommended, too (note: the rooms always cost around 1.5x times of what the guidebooks suggested). As it was a tiny place, for the same price we got a beautiful two-bedroom bungalow - so cool!



105 Lost in the past


Four streets away there was the San Ignacio Jesuit Ruins Park, one of the UNESCO world heritages. As we finally had some clouds on the sky, the 35C heat was more bearable, especially because the place that reminded me so much to Cambodia’s ruins really enchanted us. At the exit, local artists were selling their mate pots and other pieces of wooden creatures. We walked around a fair bit (it is such a cute little place!) and then rested in our bungalow.

The next day we were yet again on the road (wonder why ;-)?) to head towards Posadas. We booked a room in El Guembe hostel in advance but did not manage to find it so ended up staying at Hotel Cote d’Azul. This town of 230,000 was more crowded but had not much to explore, we felt. We had a look at its small cathedral, the Mercado des Artesanians, the Paraguay Park and an amphitheatre. Apparently due to “Santa Semana”, the Easter week the people were not in the streets but this way it just looked like a ghost city.



107 The ghost town of Posadas - maybe jsut because of Easter


The next day we walked to Costanera, a coast-side path in Posadas. The place was still dead and the heat was terrible, so we had enough of the place, I think. At lunch time we headed to the local airport and after a “deep frozen” flight we got back to Buenos Aires ;-)!

In the capital we looked for the backpackers’ place of Hostel Plaza. As Atlas Tower Hotel was on Avenida Corrientes, it seemed like a good idea (just that instead of number 1778 it was at 3973 ;-)). In the 8 double-story bedroom there were only two of us. The fan on the ceiling was clicking smoothly and the rest of the guests were filling up the air with loud chats. It was definitely a different stay than in the countryside. That is for sure!



111 Walking in one of the Palermo parks


Juli, George and Nacho, our Argentine friends kept talking about a place called the Million Bar on Parana Street so we decided to check it out that night. On our way we stopped for a meal in a Peruvian restaurant and as we both were short on money we just had a drink each in this beautiful bar ;-): green leaves decorated the terraced court, the interior furniture gave a 19th century feel to the place, the piano, the fireplace, the paintings. What a lovely place for a date :-)!
We walked for around 1.5 hours on Corrientes Avenue and by the time we reached home, we really were filled with a great experience of embracing the sparkling harmony of Buenos Aires!



115 Avenida Florida  reminds me to Vaci utca in Budapest


The next morning we aimed to find the Barrio Forte, the French district that Juli had often mentioned to me before. We found La Biela Café. What a great choice it was to stay on! Under the light blue sky, couples, families were resting at the tables inside and outside and the place seemed to have brought us back in time with decades!

As it was Easter time, the Museo Nacional de Bellas Artes was closed but we managed to find Malba, the Museo de Arte Latinamericano de Buenos Aires after walking through beautiful flowery parks. I am not into museums at all but this exhibition was kinda nice. After this, we passed by the zoo, then the Botanic Garden and then we went a place called something like El Guedo which had the best ever “bife lomo” beef meal, one that you can really cut with a spoon, it is so smooth. Something the Argentines just keep talking about and finally I could experience :-).
From here, Mitch went to the airport to catch her flight and I continued the rooming around on my own. Palermo had great refreshing parks, the Parque de Rosas, de Uruguay, de Chile… they were all full of families and friends chilling out together on this Easter weekend. I loved it!

In the Recoleta Park, a young guy was entertaining the crowd with funny puppet show. I was walking around on Avenida Libertador for around two hours (what a looooong street that is!), when I finally reached Torro de Los Ingleses from Palermo. Nearby, Avenida Florida really minded me to Vaci utca in Budapest. Here I found the shopping mall called Galerias Pacifico which is famous for its unique interior design, a cathedral-like ceiling with paintings, it could be in a museum!

Suddenly the weather changed to stormy and windy and it started sprinkling with rain... first time in two weeks! I therefore finished my 3-4-hour-long walk by taking the “subte” metro to Medrano station. I used the internet a bit nearby and then I dropped “half-dead” into my bed to go into alpha-beta.

On my last day in Buenos Aires I wanted to see San Telmo, a place that really enchanted me two weeks before. I took the Subte to Avenida Independecia and then walked a wee bit to reach the place. It was a sleepy plaza on that Saturday morning, the market was about to get into shape… it was really cute. I then walked back to the metro and remembered to accomplish the mission given by some of my friends: to buy the Argentine Alfajore chocolates ;-))) and then was ready to go to the airport!



117 Leaving Buenos Aires with the plan to be able to understand this magazin in a years time


With my last pesos, I bought my first ever Spanish magazine, guess which one: of course the National Geography Viaje (Traveller). This will motivate me to continue learning Spanish (amongst many other things) because I know I would return :-)!

First I flew to Sao Paulo then to Johannesburg. The flight was pretty sleepy yet I struggled to deal with the 5-hour-time difference a bit. Despite the warnings, all went well at the Johannesburg airport, with my bags and the immigration and at the exit, Cornelius, a guide from the Palm Guesthouse was awaiting me. To my greatest surprise I was the only guest in the place, even the staff was on leave therefore the whole of the 8-bedroom villa was only mine! Wohoooaaa! I am not used to stay in such a nice place, yet as a single woman traveler it was apparently the minimum…



120 A very eye opening few hours about the countrys recent past


Despite the short stay there I arranged to visit the legendary Apartheid Museum. Johannesburg seemed a ghost city, there were hardly any people on the streets, I guess because of Easter. The visit at the museum started pretty lethargically. Initially I tried to figure out the context with all the pieces of information but after around 15-20 minutes, thanks to the videos and the demos, I managed to put a better big picture together about what really happened here in the recent history. I even saw Nelson Mandela’s first TV interview from 1961! Similarly to the Vietnam War, I was really shocked how unhuman humans can be with each other :-(. Mandela’s release in 1990, the Nobel peace awards and all those hopeful and positive plans for the future were great finale for the museum visit. It was interesting and informative, that is for sure!
The evening passed by pretty fast and the next day I was ready to go back to the Singapore reality... Having explored a small piece of the South American world I am sure there will be a next chapter… somewhere, somehow, but for sure :-)!


121 I am really in Johannesburg - yahoooooooo
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Sunday, March 30, 2008

Krabi - The still naive traveller

It has been quite a few months that my friend, Shweta and I planned a farewell trip to Krabi, Thailand before she moved to Europe. However, the move happened earlier and I was left with a ticket that I did not want to loose. So guess what? Even though it is not quite my type to travel alone I decided to head to the town that I know fairly well by now.


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After work I took the metro to the airport what I just reached on time before the closing of the check-in. The lady there told me that as I did not have two passport photos accompanying the visa application form, I was not allowed to get on the plane. She really pissed me off! It is such a typical Singaporean approach: if something does not fit what is written on the papers, it is not possible. I did not ask them any illegal things, I told that I had been to Thailand 12-15 times already and they only ask one picture and 1,000 baht. She did not get it. But I did not let myself be won over. I was ready to fight :-) as I had a very different idea of my weekend, i.e. in Thailand! Hehehe. The lady was very slow but I requested to talk to her boss. She disappeared for a while with my paper, she did not dare to call for her manager so when she returned she gave me my flight ticket. Finally! I wonder why she wanted to make her life so complicated though :-P?

After the 1.5-hour-long flight, we were at the immigration. I was the only one who needed a visa on arrival. A young Thai man and an older Thai woman were my special immigration officers, pretty happy to receive me as I gave them some work. After a few minutes of talking, the guy wanted to spend his Saturday with me and he read up a few times the address of the guesthouse I named on my form. What should I have said to that? Nothing really. The woman was very much agreeing with him and she kept repeating it would do good to his English. I just politely smiled and tried to finish the immigration process. Well, I surely got attention.


047 Drinking Blue Margarita and reading a book


I was backpacking and as I had been to Ao Nang, Railey and Tonsai, this time I decided to stay in the small town of 30,000 people, Krabi town, which is not quite a touristy place. I found a place through a hotmail address, called Krabi City Seaview Guesthouse which was actually far from being in a city and being by a sea (it was a river :-)). Interesting marketing, ay? Based on the price I did not expect much but it was a surprisingly clean and neat place. My room was between the ground floor and the basement, its window opened towards a concrete wall but I did not really care because with the cheap room I got more money for massage ;-). The driver that was to pick me up from the airport, held a sign “Margit Treckers” ;-) and within 20-30 minutes was a great chat companion until we got to the backpackers place. He had never been abroad but knew impressively a lot about the countries in the world. I enjoyed talking to him.

I left my stuff in the room and then I went to the night market which was around 500m away. The locals were eating their delicious snacks in absolute peace and tranquil but I was a bit concerned of the hygiene there (with a reason) so looked for a small restaurant/ bar. There were hardly any tourists in this town so there was not much choice, yet I found a cute bamboo place to rest at. I sipped on my Blue Margarita cocktail (they did not serve food any more that night), read my book and just enjoyed the peace of the place.

The next morning when I really could not sleep more, I decided to take the local bus to head to Ao Nang, 20km away. The “big tuktuk” seemed to be nowhere so eventually I joined a motorbike guy to head to my destination.


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I bought some Thai silk four years ago in Bangkok and I really wanted to get something tailor-made out of it. In this town, there were plenty of Scandinavian tourists so most tailors asked for a fortune for even a simple design. After quite some search, one seemed to have come to his senses and I was on my way to complete my dress mission ;-). While walking to the beach, the turquoise palm-tree surrounded beach was absolutely breath-taking. My sister-in-law saw a nice woolen bag in September that my brother stopped her from buying so I had this shopping mission which was easily completed, yet again.

Amongst the restaurants on the beach I chose Moon Terrace because I liked its in brown wood - white woolen sun-umbrellas and finally I could eat! I had one of my very favourite meals for lunch: coconut chicken soup. During the meal, the restaurant manager approached me to talk. I was just reading so had a lot of time to chill out. His name was Thong, originally from Bangkok but had quite some time in Cambodia and Kuwait which he happily talked about with his very broken English. We even talked about the book I was reading that time, “Rich Dad, Poor Dad”. It seems he liked me because after half an hour he returned with a red rose and a necklace. He also got me to the first floor terrace where the hotel’s swimming pool and massage place was (as a non-guest I was not supposed to be there). It was good for me as due to my recent eye surgery I could not do anything with water, but rest, write and read. I got a massage in a spa and relaxed for hours there :-). A few hours later he appeared again and was insisting to take me for dinner but I really had enough of the situation and walked away on the beautiful beach.


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I climbed the rock by Ao Nang beach, enjoyed the fun presence of little monkeys in the sunset and wondered at the beautiful nature. At last I went to try on my soon-to-be-dress and then took a tuktuk to Krabi town. There the receptionist told me that someone had looked for me from upstairs but I was pretty surprised as I got to the place very late the night before and had met none at that time. When I was attempting to go into my room, the security guy refused to let me in and kept on telling me “Polish, Polish”. I did not meet anyone Polish but could not get into my room either so took him to the receptionist who told me that someone looked for me from the police. I said WHAT? Then she checked her dictionary and corrected herself, it was someone from the immigration. She was concerned, she was not sure if something happened to my passport or my visa so she called a number that was left behind. As soon as I got the phone to talk to the officer, I realized it was the immigration officer from the day before. He waited for me between 7-9am but I was not awake. He wanted to see me the next morning at 7am but I told him I was on holiday and did not plan to start the day that early. I did not want to oppose him as I had no idea what authority he might have. The receptionist realized I had nothing to do with all that was happening and told me she would not wake me up the next morning if I wanted so. So we agreed. He did come again the next morning but fortunately I checked out of the place later. I was a bit paranoid though because I was to fly off that night and he knew my details from the visa form.


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In Ao Nang I switched off, and went to my favourite beach, by Railey Beach, I relaxed, ate, drank and chatted with people. The I headed to the airport, with some tension inside, of course. Fortunately there were heaps of people there that night and I did not meet him again. It was all quite strange.

It was an unusual weekend, that is for sure!

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Orchid Story 51-52 - A whole new world…

January-February 2008

My Dear Orchid Story Reader,

The new year has started with new adventures which I will tell you about to make us live those again together, even if virtually now. For selected pictures, you can check this out. And remember: until I am here, feel free to make the virtual real ;-)!

1. Home, sweet home… the heartwarming festive Christmas
2. Scandinavian adventures: Stockholm, Bergen and Copenhagen
3. A whole new world… (literally) through new eyes
4. Chinese New Year in Vietnam
5. A yet naïve traveler, in Thailand
6. New home: I moved to the neighbourhood!


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1. Home, sweet home… the heartwarming festive Christmas

Every year I excitedly await the end of the calendar because it means I can soon spend the festive holidays with my family, this time for two whole weeks. During my three days in Budapest I managed to meet a lot of friends (you see? being organized does indeed have its benefits ;-)) and I got the chance to visit a couple of my favourite spots, too. Then I went to my little town, Bekes where together with my family we rested, played board games and cards and we ate and ate and ate :-)! Our one-day-trip to Grandma’s gave us the chance to catch up with them, beyond just the usual letters. To my greatest surprise, just before Christmas, my Kyrgyz friend, Aibek finally came over from Prague to spend the absolutely relaxing days over Christmas with us and to let me show him a bit of my world there. Needless to say, it was fun to experience my family’s first international Christmas while speaking a max of English, Hungarian, Russian and body language. In the meanwhile I got one year smarter and wiser, too, which celebration is always the best ever in a loving company :-)!


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2. Scandinavian adventures: Stockholm, Bergen and Copenhagen

On the way from Asia I always have to transit somewhere and I decided this time I wanted to go through Sweden.
- I spent a weekend with my friend, Judit in Stockholm. Despite the length of my visit, we managed to explore a bit of the “Venice of the North”: the skanzen, the old town, the ice-skating field (!!!), the Viking museum… and again and again we realized that despite of not living nearby to each other ever since our days in Budapest and New Zealand, we have heaps of parallel things in our lives :-)!
- I spent another three days in Bergen, Norway so that I can sneak into the life of my dear cousin, Marcsi and her fiancé, Sindre there. The town with its fjords, greenery, colourful “paper houses” made me have sweet nostalgic memories with Wellington, NZ. I really liked it (story here)!
- As Scandinavian Airlines changed my itinerary suddenly, I “had” to spend 24 hours in Copenhagen :-)! My Danish friend, Morten and I walked around the city, despite the freezing winter, I managed to touch the legendary, yet tiny Mermaid sculpture, we roamed around in the snow covered streets surrounded with beautiful historical buildings, and even spent some time with my friends, Andris and Szilvi there. Somehow 24 hours can really be an enchanting miracle…!


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3. A whole new world… (literally) through new eyes

For years I have been playing around the thought of a lasik eye surgery but somehow my paranoia always overruled. During the holidays I realized it was “just about my fear” and I decided I would surprise myself with a clear eye sight for my birthday :-). The fear remained but I was already there, shaking, right on that cold theatre bed, in the big darkness, under the machines, and after a few hours when I opened my eyes… unbelieeeeeeeeeeeeeeevable! My left eye had to be convinced with a second surgery that seeing is awesome and voila :-)! This is really a whole new world to me :-)!


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4. Chinese New Year in Vietnam

My Indian friend, Amit and I took our four-day-long weekend to explore Ho Chi Minh City/ Saigon. Vietnamese people celebrate “Tet” therefore the time was spent pretty slowly: small exploring, resting, massage and fabulous meals! Oh, and the Saturday night street festival was beautiful (story here)!


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5. A yet naïve traveler, in Thailand

The farewell trip with my friend, Shweta, due to the many thousand kms was spent alone, yet it was quite unique! After a long time I traveled on my own and there were plenty of things there: an immigration officer committed to spend time off with me during the weekend, a red rose, doing nothing by the beach, reading, massage. It was somehow very different!


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6. New home: I moved to the neighbourhood!

For four beautiful years Astoria Park was my home and I loved it! But sometimes in one’s life the time comes to change and to find new and fun flat mates to share life with! So if you wish to message me, do not hesitate to write to email me for the postal address.

After this unusually long update, let me sign off for now… :-)!

Hugs,
Gitti/ Margit/ Hugi

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Saigon - Vietnam… in a different way

On the Chinese New Year day of 2008, early in the morning I met one of my friends, Amit at the entrance of my condo. After the two nights staying awake I felt like a real zombie I must admit , yet at the bottom of my heart, I knew I was ready for a new adventure!



015 Welcome meal and drink in Go2Eat


On the board of the Jetstar budget airlines we soon slept through the two-hour-long trip and we were already at the very new and beautiful airport of Ho Chi Minh City (HCMC), a.k.a Saigon (in comparison with 3 years ago it was so modern and new!). A middle-aged man was waiting for us with a big “Margit” sign in his hands and within 30-40 minutes we were in the familiar backpackers district, at Madam Cuc Hotel 64 (Bui Vien Street, District 1). In Vietnam, due to the house taxes, the buildings are very narrow and in order to get a cheap place to stay in, we ended up getting a room on the 6th floor, which in reality was on the 8th floor, 135 stairs away from the ground. HCMC is crowded and loud, most of the foreign investments come to this commercial center so it has grown to be a real metropolis actually.



016 In the city centre

After some relaxing we headed to town. After 100 meter of walking we went to Go2Eat restaurant for lunch. There I saw a young couple, probably around 35, with three kids. The oldest, a girl and the second, a boy were playing pool, at least kind of, as much as they could reach it, and the smallest one, around 2 years old was roaming around the parents. The scene really touched me because I found it stunning how, with a family like this, young people travel around to discover Vietnam… in a different way…

After a fabulous Vietnamese curry we took our map and headed to town finally! As we were walking around we discovered a new sight of Asia, very different from Singapore’s, yet very much realistic one. Biking “cyclo” men tried getting us to take a ride, however, with the new visitors’ stubbornness we continued walking on our own.


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At first we visited the War Remnant Muesum, which is a real-life-testimony of the Vietnam war a few decades ago. In 2004, I clearly remember how my visit here steered me up with its eye-opening exhibitions. It is terrible what we, humans, can do to each other. In Vietnamese I attempted to explain to Amit which streets to take (after our fun misunderstanding situation during the China trip, he was kinda sceptic :-P). We found the extra secured Reunification Palace and then through a park we got to the Notre Dame Cathedral. Here we met a colleague, Stefan, who recommended us to check out the “Tet” festival flower market in a nearby street, 0.5km away. The city, opposite to my memories of it, was very silent, a lot of places were closed, but at the end, no wonder, as it was “their Christmas time”. By the Opera House we saw women selling their goods from big baskets and we also saw many Vietnam and Saigon photo exhibitions placed along the streets we took. The year of the mouse/ rat was welcomed with a huge flower parade and suddenly many people appeared all around. The riverside was nothing special, fairly polluted but on the way back to downtown, it took us to a nice foot massage place where we spent half an hour indulging in this form of relaxation. Many times we seemed to have got lost at least we felt that way, yet we still had so much time on our hands!

Before dinner we took another 135-step-climb to our room and then went for a walk in the backpackers street. Due to the past days’ exhaustion I soon went to alpha-and-beta but Amit, Albert, Lucian and Erwin partied a wee bit in town.



024 Sellers by the Operahouse


Cuchi tunnels, the place famous for its underground paths from the Vietnam War times was a destination I did not want to take on, as I clearly remember the shock I had few years ago. In the afternoon we went to downtown to check out Ben Thanh market but it was closed because of the festive days. Our taxi driver, without any command of English, could only understand our destination by interpreting Amit’s cartoonish drawing of a lion and a cage and we indeed made our way to the right place! From the books, we remembered that it was not a good place to visit but it was right by the History Museum which seemed worth a visit. After the museum we spent some time in the Botanic Garden which was filled with families.


029 Motobike traffic in HCMC


From here Amit pretended to pray so a new taxi driver knew we wanted to check out the cathedral. There we looked around for a nice café and voila, we met another colleague, Darshana for a few minutes. Amit bought some deco souvenirs and I bought Vietnamese tops for myself and then we walked “home” I don’t know if it was something Saigon specific but the time was passing by so slowly here! Maybe I am just not a “city girl” and that is why I was bored, maybe ;-).


039 Rafting on the narrow riverside


We went to a run down pub called Guns’n’Roses to have a cocktail and play pool and then went for another foot massage. After that, we met Albert and his gang in Bui Vien Street and headed to Go2Bar where we had some drinks, beers and danced big time! Gosh, I loved dancing again!


044 Boats in Mekong delta


The next day we planned a trip to the Mekong delta. We were munching on our baguette breakfast at 7.30am and until 8.15-8.20 there was no sign of a tour guide. I kept reading and writing but after a while Amit strongly was enquiring about the trip and the hotel lady said the bus could not enter our street and we had to take a motorbike ride. I did not mind at all, rather loved it!!! The driver kept asking if we overslept so I knew they forgot about us ;-). Anyway I loved taking the ride for long kms on the crowded roads! Funnily enough Albert, Erwin and Lucian ended up being on the same bus with us so we headed to Mekong delta together. Because of the “Tet” festival the famous floating market was not open so we spent some relaxing time: checked out how they make the local coconut candies, the banana wine, we drank honey tea, walked around in orchards and listened to local songs. Even though it was a nice program, to me it was way too slow. The best thing we did was the boat rafting for 10-15 minutes on the narrow river though. I loved that :-)! After the 1.5-hour-long bus ride we were back to Saigon. Amit and I went for a Vietnamese Italian dinner, rested a bit and later in the evening we met the boys in the neighbourhood. First we went to Gvintel, a very nice restaurant by the Opera House (with the best ever Strawberry-Lemon juice I have ever tasted :-)). After that we walked around the colourful flowery streets. The ambience was sweet and happy… Later we went up to the forth floor of the Rex Hotel were we relaxed while sipping on a cocktail and watched the street festival from above.

Later we just went to sleep, packed and then took our way back to the reality, back to Singapore…

More pictures here!

Daydreaming thoughts from Bergen

On the way from Hungary to Singapore this year I flew through Stockholm so I thought I could do a side trip to see my cousin Marcsi and her fiancé, Sindre in the town of Bergen, Norway. Marcsi, her sister and I grew up together so I was very keen to find out a bit about her new world now.


006 Together on the funicular


I spent a night in Stockholm, transiting, and to my greatest surprise Nisarg, my Indian friend living there and her Christine came to the airport to have a cup of tea and great chat with me. We spent a few hours just catching up, talking about big and small things in life and without noticing the time passing by it was already midnight! I have to admit, it was a great new year surprise!

The next morning I flew to Oslo and then right away to Bergen and wondering what would be next.


007 View to the harbour


In Bergen, Sindre was waiting for me at the airport and taxied me to Marcsi’s workplace, a very cute kindergarden/crèche where she had been working since July already. I admired how my cousin has grown into being a caring teacher and loving adult and how she was dealing with the little ones! I used a bit of the internet at their place and then played with the children, observed their daily routine and all. Some really looked like tiny trolls while being wrapped in cloths from head to toe. I fell in love with Teo, one of the boy twins, as he was stealing the hearts of everyone around!


010 Marcsi en and the Troll


Marcsi started work early so she was done by 2.30pm. We went to her flat, I unpacked and then together with Sindre we were heading to town! First we went to Flojbanen, the cable car so we went up the one of the hills to enjoy the breath-taking view to the town shaped with stunning cute fjords all around. It was a bit hazy, the lakes and little rivers were surrounded with paper-look-alike colourful houses and I just loved to scenery! We hugged the biggest wooden troll of town and then went to the Akvariat, the underwater world place of Bergen. The seals, penguins and zillions of fish were accompanied with crocodiles and reptiles. It was a cute place, yet again!


013 Lovely evening view in Bergen


At around 6 o’clock, to my surprise, most places closed down so we headed to a cozy little restaurant in the neighbourhood for dinner. Well, it was rather a feast :-)!

In the evening, at home, we had a look at the Bergen map to find the “to-see” places and then we went to sleep.

The day started slowly. Even though my brain told me it was already 9 or half past 9, I still did not come to agreement with it as it was pitch black. After the little signs of my watch proved the beginning of the day, I took a short bus ride and headed to town!


019 Icecubes along the street sides AGAIN WOOOOOW


The castle of Bergenhus was closed but I managed to walk around in its park, even though it was subzero. On the cobblestone streets, it was a pleasure to take every step and “accidentally” finding the Maria church and then the most famous place of Bergen, the Bryggen. Gosh! The place stunned me! We could say it was just a raw of colourful houses by the water but to me it was just amazing! I walked up and down by those houses, looked at them from close, from far and then from close again and it reminded me to a fairy tale scene! Loved it! Then I decided to walk further, though kept on looking back at the enchanting water-side street!

The buildings in the consequent streets looked different, yet very colourful and the fast-speed-walk was nice (I was freezing ;-)). The fish market, due to the cold of the winter was small but smellily cute, too.

I just had to follow the cobblestones and found the Johannes Church, at the end of long stairs ahead of me. The dark-red bricks under the clear blue sky were fantastic view to be part of.

Besides that, there was the university quarter when I spent some time inside the Nature Museum to defrost. At least at the beginning that was the objective, later I actually found really cool places inside the Culture Museum, sections on Vikings, Antarctic explorations and big whales.

After regaining my natural body temperature, I took on another fight with the cold and despite all I really felt the charm of the town was really worth it! While I walked down on one of the streets I saw a “London 2008” calendar in one of the bookstores. It has black-and-white pictures reminding me to Europe. I thought it would be a great reminder for me thorough the year to my plans to move to the “old continent” in 2009 :-).


041 Houses in Gamlel Bergen


I took a bus to Arsane and then met Marcsi there so we could go together to Bergen. We had the chance to sneak into Gamle Bergen, the town’s skanzen, despite it being closed due to winter. We then went to a place called something like Grons… where Marcsi and Sindre sometimes spend sunny days in the summer. I really liked that this town had a lot of trees and small forests inside, little slopes to climb, nice garden-houses to pass by and in general, just the feel of it! No wonder, Norwegians are such nature-lovers!

At home we had a lemon fish dinner and then went to the movie theatre to watch the chick flick called “Enchanted in New Year”. Then at home we watched “Ever After” so ever since I have been waiting for my prince to come… hihihi :-)! I believe such a fairy life exists indeed!
045 Relaxing and writing messages by the Bryggen in Lido Conditori LOVELY PLACE

The next morning started late, too! If the sun does not wake up why would I do, right :-)? I took a bus to downtown and then no wonder, I “accidentally” ended up in a café called Lido-Conditory right opposite of the Bryggen. I was sitting there for hours, sipping on hot fruit tea and writing messages to family and friends. What shall I say… this IS life :-)!
More photos here!

Saturday, January 12, 2008

Orchid Story 49-50 - Diploma, Mandarin, dance and career

November-December 2007

My Dear Orchid Story reader,

The four words above, diploma-Mandarin-dance-career don't quite interdepend in my life 100%, however, they well describe my last two months.

1. I completed my MBA! I did it, I did it!
2. Me and my Mandarin: one letter = 1000 km ;-)?
3. Dance, dance and dance: in the excitement of performances
4. Changes at work: I've got to experience this, too


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1. I completed my MBA! I did it, I did it!

There are miracles, ay!!! I felt that way at least when on 17th November I received my MBA transcripts from the university. I completed my MBA! My 1.5+ years was sometimes spent in self-pity for the long nights of studying but they brought the desired completion and it feels amazing! :-). The graduation ceremony will take place only in May but until then I am daydreaming about what all I can do with the extra 15-20 hours per week as new hobbies. At first I signed up for Spanish! Como estas ;-)?


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2. Me and my Mandarin: one letter = 1000 km ;-)?

On the weekend of the religious festival of Hari Raya, my friend, Amit (IN) and I decided to explore a bit of Southwestern China. Guangzhou itself is not quite interesting, it is big and grey industrial city but we soon decided to target Yangshuo, the place famous for its Chinese picture-like sceneries. After a long while I could use my tiny Mandarin knowledge again which funnily enough took us into some fun trouble: instead of Yangshuo, a place 8 hours away, I mispronounced the name and ended up buying train tickets to Yangzhou which is 26 hours away ;-). One letter... get real ;-)! Hehehe. After 5 hours of traveling we noticed this though and somehow made it to the destination. It was breathtaking - definitely worth it! In numbers the trip would look something like this: 20 hours of sightseeing + 42 hours of traveling and transit + 14 hours sleep = 76 hours of adventures ;-) (Pictures can be found here.).


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3. Dance, dance and dance: in the excitement of performances

As a small girl, I used to often daydream about being a revu/ musical dancer. Even though I did not end up becoming one, in November I got two dance performances to hype up my life: at the company dinner & dance annual ball with my 8-people-HR team we performed a bhangra & disco dance (video here) and later with my dance studio we did an Egyptian belly dance choreography (video here), too. It was a fantasic experience and in some ways I lived that dream of the young Gitti ;-).


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4. Changes at work: I've got to experience this, too

Besides all the fun moments there were some challenges along the way, too. Due to downsizing and re-organising at work, the professional aspect of life that I have always taken for granted was shaken up. This got me to finally evaluate where I am and what I am doing and also led me to do a more thought over career planning. My new portfolio at work is still shaping up, it is expanding. I see fantasy in it as I am excited about my specialisation so there should be another interesting year to come.

2007 is about to get complete. I would like to thank you for coming along with my on the sometimes flowery, sometimes rocky route of it, even if often just virtually ;-). I wish you Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!



Love (now) from Hungary ;-)
Gitti/ Hugi/ Margit

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Egyptian dance performance

006 My dance troupe Jenny Ann Rackel CheeKeng Christine Ivy Pansy Gitti and Maia

With my dance studio, we had a dance performance at Tiong Bahru Cultural Event. With our instructor, Maia we prepared for it for a month and then the 9 of us did it, did it, did it! ;-)

The Community Life Arts Programme (CLAP!) by the National Arts Council of Singapore

Dancers: Stephanie, Jenny, Chee Keng, Christine, Ann, Rackel, Pansy, Ivy and myself



Photos can be seen here.